Meet with confidence
Safety Guidelines
Practical steps for safer conversations, clearer boundaries and more responsible in-person meetings.
SugarNights is strictly for adults aged 20 or older. If you believe someone is under 20, stop communicating and contact support.
Protect personal information
- Keep your home and work address, financial details, passwords and identity documents private.
- Use the platform conversation tools until you are comfortable moving elsewhere.
- Be cautious when someone quickly asks for private contact details or intimate images.
Watch for warning signs
- Requests for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency or financial assistance.
- Pressure to act quickly, keep the relationship secret or ignore your boundaries.
- Stories or identity details that repeatedly change.
- Threats, harassment, blackmail or attempts to obtain explicit content without consent.
Before meeting
- Verify who you are speaking with using reasonable methods.
- Tell a trusted person where you are going and when you expect to return.
- Choose a busy public place and arrange your own transportation.
- Keep your phone charged and have an exit plan.
Consent and boundaries
Consent must be informed, voluntary, specific and reversible at any time. Silence, intoxication or previous consent is not current consent. Respect a refusal immediately.
Health and wellbeing
Discuss sexual health and safer-sex expectations honestly. Avoid meeting when judgment is impaired, and never pressure another person to use alcohol or substances.
Report concerns
Stop contact when something feels unsafe. Save relevant information and email sugar-nights@support.com. If there is immediate danger or a crime may have occurred, contact local emergency services or law enforcement.